Online humiliation is the desire to be seen in a sexually
embarrassing context on the Internet. This practice allows the submissive to
seek fetish partners from across the world.
Common methods of online
humiliation:
Public pillory
Embarrassing photographic or video assignments for
submissives, who must humiliate themselves on camera, etc.
The requirement for submissives to keep online journals
detailing personal information, such as masturbation frequency and details.
Verbal abuse
Publicly bidding for items that
reveal their fetishes.
Money slavery, in which the
submissive must buy the dominant gifts and pay the dominant's bills and taxes
Homework slavery, in which the submissive must do the
dominant's homework or occupational work
Repetitive assignments, such as copying the phone book,
etc
Animal play—describing the submissive as a pet, dog, girl, or bitch;
making the submissive eat and drink from pet food and water bowls.[3]
Verbal belittlement, with such words as slave, boy, girl, missy, and
pet.
Insults and verbal abuse, such as fat,
ugly, stupid, and worthless.
Degrading names, such as slut, shit, bitch, and whore.
Racial and ethnic slurs.
Slighting of body parts and behaviors, such as disparaging or cruel
references to breasts, facial appearance, genitalia (including size), buttocks,
and slighting of such mannerisms as walking, responsiveness, and standard of
self-care.
Requirement to ask permission for everyday activities, such as going to
the toilet, spending money, and eating.
Small-penis humiliation, in which scorn is addressed over the supposed
inadequacy of the man's genitals or his inability to please a lover, and his
penis becomes an object of derision.
Forced repetition, such as the submissive's being obliged to repeat
commands that he or she has been given and to confirm them.
Forced
flattery, such as agreeing that every decision that the dominant makes is wise,
correct, and justifiable, while additionally praising the dominant's physical
and personality traits.
Mockery,
derision, and ridicule.
Scolding of the type commonly reserved for
children.[3]
Physical humiliation
Ejaculating, spitting, and urinating on the submissive's body,
especially the face.
Servitude
Forced sexual degradation, including such acts as erotic massage,
cunnilingus, analingus, and fellatio.
Detailed accountability and control (micro-management) as to time spent
and activities done, including lists of jobs to do, precise directions as to
how the job is to be performed, and exactly how to act and behave.
Specific rituals and affectations to be
adopted. This includes displays of subservience, such as lighting cigarettes,
walking a pace behind the dominant, speaking only when spoken to, kneeling or
prostrating oneself in front of the dominant when expecting orders, eating only
after others or on the floor, and low-status place to sleep.
Body worship, including such activities as kissing or
licking the dominant's feet, boots, buttocks, anus, vulva, etc. to express
acknowledgment, subservience, shame, and even positive emotions (such as
happiness and excitement).
Deprivation of privacy, which may include the submissive's never being
able to leave the room in which the dominant is present without permission.
The dominant watches while the submissive uses the
toilet.
The
submissive's being forbidden to leave the house or 'dungeon' in general for the
duration of slavery or servitude, etc.
Discipline
(BDSM), including erotic spanking, slapping, whipping, restraint, and other
BDSM activities (such as cock-and-ball torture (CBT)).
Dresscode (BDSM): prescriptions and proscriptions of clothing, even in
public.
For women, a common example is being
mandated to wear only bikinis or lingerie.
For men, forced feminizing and
cross-dressing.
Both sexes may be expected to go completely naked,
with decorative objects such as collars, diapers, bands, tiaras, and cuffs as
the only exceptions.
Erotic sexual denial, including the use of a chastity belt.
Wearing of
external signs of "ownership", such as collars.[3]
Public humiliation, in which the
submissive's friends or family, or strangers, are aware of or even witness the
treatment.
Erotic objectification, in which the
submissive is used as human furniture, such as a footstool.
Embarrassment.
Forced anal penetration, with dildos, anal plugs, and similar objects.
Cuckolding, a mostly heterosexual fetish in
which the dominant woman has sex with a man outside of the relationship while
the submissive man may or may not be present. If the man is not present, he
might help her choose what clothes to wear when she meets the other man, or
they might get together afterward so she can tell him about it, either while
having sex or in addition to withholding sex. If the man is present during the
cuckolding, he may or may not be allowed to pleasure himself while watching.
The cuckolding may or may not be followed by sex between the couple. Another
variant of the cuckolding fetish is that a heterosexual couple fantasizes that
another man has already impregnated the woman.[4]
The
submissive's having to ask permission to orgasm during sex or masturbation.
The
submissive's being forced to wear a gag or restraints on the body.
Forced
masturbation in a humiliating manner.[5]
Feelings of
humiliation are key to many of those engaged in klismaphilia.[3]
Feederism
Some sexual humiliation involves
physical inflicting pain, but much of it is far more concerned with ridicule,
mocking, degradation, and embarrassment.
Sexual roleplaying can involve
humiliation. For example, one person might play the part of a dog because he or
she enjoys being mock-forced into it, and the top might emphasize the lowness
of the bottom's status as an animal, whereas another person might play the role
of the dog without any element of humiliation, simply as an expression of an
inner animal or playful spirit.
Note: We should not put our BDSM
values on anyone in the vanilla world! Please do not humiliate anyone in a
Vanilla setting such as a restaurant or supermarket with a possibility of a
vanilla person seeing this.
